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Saturday, October 11, 2008

Be who YOU are and be that Perfectly!!

It's hard to figure out who you are, what your purpose is, what you want to get out of life, and where you're going. But doing things that others do because THEY are doing them, doesn't mean it's right for you. I understand that you are confused and you think that well if that works for them I'm going to do it.

I'm not a controlling person, at all. But people need to realize that copying others is not the way for them to find happiness. Sure, a monetary happiness may be gained, but nothing long term. You have to do what's right to you. Not what's popular, cool, or something that you think others will be interested in. You don't do things so you can say you do them. You do it for yourself. At least you should.

Finding oneself is a hard task but you have to look within in yourself and love you for you. So if you are a jock/nerd/average/studious/tall/short/thick/thin/blonde/brunette/red-head/Caucasian/African/Asian/Greek/Italian/Spanish WHATEVER you are, don't try to be ANYTHING else BUT that.

STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU!!!

Now I'm not encouraging reckless and/or dangerous behavior, just don't try to impress someone by doing something you think they may like, it's not worth it.

OKAY I'm done. Peace out! xo

2 comments:

PinkAvocado said...

again, i agree.
it's so hard for people to find theirselves in a world crazy about others.
but i think it takes a strong person to do so, someone who is confident and somewhat determined.
i mean no matter how long it takes, you should try to figure you out, i think it brings peace of mind.
xx

Girl Making it Through said...

absolutely! I like the way we think!

 
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